Dream Weddings Helpful Tips

Unique Place Card Holders

2012-01-04T21:07:00.000-05:00

Unique place card holders for any type of wedding theme, here are just a few from Beau-coup. Right now they have Free Shipping for orders over $59 (Code: FREESHIP)

Natural Seashell Place Card Holders	Butterfly Place Card Holders	Fall Leaves Place Card Holders
Silver Fortune Cookie Place Card Holders	White Snowflake Place Card Holders	Mini Eiffel Tower Place Card Holders
Wine Cork Place Card Holders	Mini Bud Vase Place Card Holders	Champagne Bottle Wedding Bubbles Place Card Holders

Unique Centerpieces

2010-08-10T10:58:00.017-04:00

Looking for something different why not an edible centerpiece. You can use them as just a centerpiece for each table and someone can take it home with them at the end of the night or use the centerpiece as a part of your dessert selection but it is right at the table for your guests.

These are great for weddings, bridal showers or any type of dinner parties.

You can find these at Edible Arrangements.

Edible Arrangements® has a fresh fruit bouquet to make any occasion special - from birthdays, anniversaries and congratulations to business events and client gifts. Our bouquets are made fresh with premium fruit arranged in a variety of stunning displays. Customers can visit one of or 868 stores worldwide, order online or via phone. Each bouquet can be complemented with chocolate dipped fruit including dipped strawberries, dipped pineapple daisies, dipped banana slices, dipped Granny Smith apple wedges and more! Make every occasion special with Edible Arrangements®

Chic and Cheap Centerpieces

2010-07-20T00:24:00.007-04:00

Looking for a cheap but chic centerpieces, these are great and easy to do.

Here are some tips from No Fuss Fabulous:

1. In order for your flowers not to float to the top of your vase, you will need to a) attach the stems to the bottom of the vase with aquarium glue or b) use fishing weights. Fishing weights are small silver weights sold at hardware stores. Attach weights onto the flower with clear fishing wire and let it sink – cover up with decorative stones or c) for some flowers simply adding decorative stones or pebbles to the bottom of each vase around stems keep the flowers from floating to the top.

2. If you use regular tap water, bubbles may eventually begin to form on your flowers. Use distilled water to prevent bubbling.

3. Real flowers are recommended. If you use silk flowers, make sure you test them in water to prevent bleeding. I have heard that synthetic flowers work better than silk.

4. If your arrangement starts to look too heavy, try submerging only half of your flowers. I have been to a few events where they only submerged a portion of the flowers and they looked quite lovely. See photo below offlowers not fully submerged.

5. In water, everything is magnified. A floating wire or fraying silk flower will show. Be sure that your pieces are well put together before adding water.

6. Depending on the flower you choose, the blooms can look nice up to a week submerged in water. The length of time your centerpiece will look fresh depends not only on the flower you choose, but also how much jostling will take place. This is something to think about if you are hauling a few of them to a wedding reception or other event.

Check out No Fuss Fabulous for more pictures of different centerpieces down this way.

The Nervous Bride

2010-06-11T13:45:00.004-04:00

The church is bedecked with flowers
And soon the guests will arrive
It's the day every girl dreams of
Today I become a bride
I should be filled with excitement
Not with this feeling of dread
What in the world is wrong with me
In just a while I'll be wed
I'm in love with my intended
And he's so in love with me
So I should be walking on air
Not wondering if I can flee
And yes, that's just what I'm thinking
What would the consequence be
If I just took off, and left here
But that's so selfish of me
Everyone plans on being here
All of our family and friends
And so much has gone into this
There can be only one end
Though my instinct's telling me run
I'll continue on as planned
And I'll go through with this wedding
And as we dance to the band
I'll tell myself that this was right
Just as it was meant to be
Starting our life as man and wife
To live ever happily
For surely, this is just jitters
Every bride gets them, right?
Nervous bout the ceremony
And maybe, the wedding night
But I know we'll stay together
Our marriage one that will last
We will grow old with each other
Just start that wedding march...fast!

Terri Lyn Stanfield

Wine Wipes - Removes Red Wine Stains

2010-06-10T06:09:00.004-04:00

Perfect for brides who want to drink red wine at their wedding. Wine Wipes are a quick and easy way to discreetly remove red wine stains from your teeth and mouth. Go ahead, wipe that wine off your smile. The gentle citrus flavour freshens breath and cleans the palate without distracting from the wine consuming experience. No water or rinsing is necessary. Wine Wipes remove red wine stains from your teeth and lips. Get yours here.

These were featured with: Rachael Ray, Today Show, Family Circle and Brides Magazine.

Yummy Bridal Shower And Wedding Favors

2010-05-08T13:20:00.005-04:00

Yummm! Delight your guests with these eatable favors. Whether you're celebrating a wedding or a bridal shower or anniversary, these yummy favors are sure to top off any event! Brought to you by: Beau-coup

Petite Bride & Groom Gourmet Apples (set of 12)

Mini Wedding Brownie Favor Pops

Two Tier Rose Mini Cake

Custom Favor Cake Display

2010-05-05T16:34:00.004-04:00

This Custom Favor Cake display takes the cake—literally! High-quality custom favor cakes turn even simple favors into gorgeously packaged delights. Perfect for birthday parties, weddings and bridal showers.

Each favor cake is made up of 'slices' of favor boxes and personalized to your taste. Select the cake size (from one to seven layers), your favorite favor box color, ribbon colors, accent type, and cake topper style. Endless combinations to perfectly match your event!

Cakes can arrive assembled or unassembled. Assmebled cakes are ready-to-go and include 5 jordan almonds and a love poem in each favor box; just slip each layer out of its box, stack on top of each other, and voila! Jordan almonds not included in unassembled cakes and assembly is required; kit arrives with detailed instructions.
From: Beau-coup

Mothers Day Breakfast

2010-04-28T15:29:00.000-04:00

Mothers Day Breakfast Mother’s day is the perfect occasion to let your mother know how much you love her. Mother’s day is the day to celebrate motherhood and thank your mother for all small and big things she has done for you.

Pink Champagne Cupcakes - Perfect For A Bridal Shower

2010-04-25T20:00:00.003-04:00

Tiny bubbles. Beautiful cupcakes. Elegant cupcakes for a Bridal Shower.

For these super easy cupcakes you can find the easy instructions here.

Courtesy of Betty Crocker

Instant Photo Guest Book

2010-04-21T13:49:00.009-04:00

Instant Photo Guest Book® for FujiFilm Instax

Let guests be your wedding photographers and compile their candid shots alongside their inscriptions in this luxurious fabric-bound guest book. Exclusively for photos taken by the Instax 200 Instant Film Camera by Fuji, the photo guest book features cut-outs to perfectly frame the instant photos. Opens and folds perfectly flat with 30 spaces for photos, ideal for about 75 guests. The guest book measures 8" x 10" x 1 ½" with 2¼" x 3¾" openings, including one on the front of the book for a one-of-a-kind keepsake.

From The Knot Wedding Shop

Personalized Dance Floor

2010-04-21T13:23:00.003-04:00

Personalized Dance Floor Decal

When you and your honey dance to "your" song, the dance floor should feel like it's all your own-and with a personalized dance floor decal, it will!

Why not check all the different styles you can see them here

Photo Wedding Wishing Well

2010-04-21T13:03:00.006-04:00

Photo Wedding Wishing Well

Grant yourself 150 wishes on your wedding day—well wishes, that is! This contemporary wishing well guest book holds 150 elegant cards and a sleek silver pen. It's the perfect way for your wedding or engagement party guests to express their warmest wishes and share their fondest memories.

Find this at: Beau-coup

Bachelorette Party Game

2010-04-16T13:40:00.003-04:00

Bachelorette game includes 19, colorful "it's a dare!" cards with spots to scratch-off to reveal the hidden dares. The cards feature dares such as "Ask the DJ to play your favorite song" and "Make a veil out of toilet paper and have the bride-to-be wear it."

Visit: Dream Weddings

2010-04-08T22:16:00.001-04:00

Pucker up and pen a love note to your sweetie with this Lipstick Pen & Sticky Notes Set–each note on the bright pink lip-shaped notepad is always sealed with a kiss! Also makes a fun bridal shower favor.

It's A Shoe Thing!

2010-04-06T21:41:00.001-04:00

The modern woman's Cinderella slipper! Though it may look delicate and dainty, this incredibly chic stiletto shoe bottle opener is a sturdy do-it-yourselfer. No girls' night out is complete without it. Plus, these bottle openers make fabulous bridesmaids gifts, bachelorette party favors or bridal shower favors.

Each trendy bottle opener is adorned with a trio of tiny rhinestones and covered in a shiny, silver-chrome finish. Perfectly packaged in a pink shoebox complete with clear display window, white-on-black polka dot accented lid, black grosgrain bow and "For You!" gift tag. The back and front of each box reads, “It’s a Shoe Thing! Shoe Bottle Opener.”

Individual Towel Cakes - Bridal Shower Favors

2010-04-04T14:33:00.004-04:00

Ready for some good, clean fun? Your guests will laugh when they see these fabulous towel cake favors. Each delectable 'dessert' is really a fluffy hand towel folded to look like a tasty treat. These unique, practical gifts are perfect as bridal shower favors. Best of all, they're calorie-free! Check out these great Individual Towel Cakes

Eco-Friendly Wedding Confetti

2010-04-01T14:21:00.003-04:00

Add a ""green"" touch to your wedding with our eco-friendly wedding confetti. It is water soluble and biodegradable so you can have a festive send-off while protecting our mother earth. It comes in an array of colors to match your event.

From: Beau-Coup

Unique Centerpieces For A Bridal Shower

2010-03-25T12:38:00.004-04:00

Looking for a unique centerpiece for your Bridal Shower - Check these out:

Totally trendy and terrific - What a way to toast that special occasion!

From:

Great Bridal Shower Decoration

2010-03-24T22:01:00.004-04:00

These would be so pretty at the Bridal Shower. To find the easy hanging crepe paper rose balls you can find the full tutorial at House of Smiths

Green Wedding Centerpiece

2010-03-23T22:35:00.004-04:00

Create an easy yet elegant green wedding centerpiece using blumebox flower vases.

Visit their site at: www.blumebox.com

Will You Be My Bridesmaid Card

2010-02-05T12:58:00.002-05:00

Ask your dearest friends to stand by your side on your wedding day with this gorgeous "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" card. (It can also say "Maid of Honor", "Flower Girl", etc) This card can be customized for your wedding colors however you like!

You can find them at: Pink Hearts Paperie - Etsy Store

Bride and Groom Napkins

2010-02-03T13:04:00.006-05:00

It's hard to believe they're actually napkins, but they are! Stylishly standing side by side, the bride and groom on these two napkins can be a charming addition to your table, whether your guests use them as napkins or you stand them up as table décor. The bride dressed in white against a pink background with a bouquet of flowers in her hands, and the groom is dressed in a black tuxedo with pink boutonnière, ready to enhance your wedding, rehearsal dinner or bridal shower.

Features and facts:

Bride and groom designs are sold separately
Eco-friendly napkins are made of 100% recycled tissue
FDA-approved food grade inks
Packed 16 per box

You can find these cute napkins at: FavorAffair.com

Save The Date

2010-01-30T08:19:00.012-05:00

Save the Dates cards provides as a reminder that you are going to get married. More than that, they’re very helpful for guests who are coming from out of town and need to make hotel arrangements or guests who have very busy social calendars. Save the date cards are usually mailed out three to five months before the actual wedding date. However some couples send them out as soon as they have confirmed their wedding date.

There are two types of save the date cards that are currently sold: cards and magnets. The wording on most save the date cards is usually straight to the point regardless of the type you choose. Usually, it consists of the bride and groom's name and the date and state where the wedding would take place.

The save the date cards also help the bride and groom relax a little knowing that they have informed everyone of the main details of the wedding.

Here are a few places online you can view:

MagnetStreet Weddings
Tiny Prints
Pear Tree Greetings
Invitations by Dawn Canada
The Knot Wedding Shop

Name Change After Your Wedding

2010-01-22T14:33:00.005-05:00

Well you are married now and have decided to take your husband's last name, but that means work for you changing your name.

MissNowMrs Online Name Change Service is a premier online service created to simplify the name-change process for brides and newlyweds nationwide. Your legal forms and letters can be completed online, printed, and filed after the bride receives her marriage certificate. They save brides an average of 13 hours of form research, completion, and filing mishaps!

So when you are ready why not visit: MissNowMrs

Express Yourself with Color on Your Wedding Day

2010-01-18T12:00:00.005-05:00

Did you know that every color has a specific meaning or symbolism? Just like horoscopes, some people believe in these symbols and meanings and others do not. Whether you believe it or not, certain colors certainly do exude specific energies (red is hot, yellow is cheerful, etc) and the colors that you choose for your wedding theme can have a big impact on the overall success of your big day. Here is a closer look at what the specific meanings are behind the most popular wedding colors:

The color RED signifies passionate love: Red is the warmest color of all and is the most chosen wedding color for couples (or brides) with outgoing, confident personalities. Be careful not to overuse red or it can come across as garish and tacky. In Asian culture, red is the color of eternal joy and prosperity, and therefore red is a popular color for Chinese brides to wear on their wedding day. In Western culture, red is the color of passion and red roses symbolize passionate love, often making them a preferred choice for table arrangements and bridal bouquets.

The color PINK signifies calm, joyous love. Known as a quiet and soft color, pink symbolizes universal love and is a favorite wedding color for brides everywhere. Pink carnations symbolize ‘forever remembered’ and therefore, are a sweet flower to add to a grooms boutonniere or bridal bouquet. Since pink is the result of mixing red with white, the degree of white dictates the softness or shocking shade of pink achieved. The softer tones of pink, which are most appropriate for a wedding theme color, signifies tenderness, love and acceptance.

The color BLUE signifies true, sincere love. Blue Perfect especially if you are having a tropical, exotic or beach themed wedding, blue is the coolest color of all and represents the sky, ocean and twilight. It is said that in Ancient Egypt, blue represented heaven, and since it is a calming color, blue can be wonderful and symbolic as a wedding day theme color. Blue flowers are strikingly beautiful, such as the blue iris, which symbolizes the importance of a relationship and would be a good flower in a mixed bouquet or as part of the table centerpieces at the wedding reception.

The color WHITE signifies pure love. White is the universal color for innocence and purity – worn by brides at weddings and babies at christenings around the world. Depending on the country or culture, white has many meanings – it can mean kindness, wholeness, completion, openness or truth – all good qualities to include in a wedding ceremony. White daisies are a symbol of loyal love – white tulips, roses, calla lilies and gerbera daisies are all very popular with today’s bride. White can have a cold, stark quality so you need to be very careful with your wedding decor. Balance it out with a second color and use warmer shades of white whenever possible.

The color PURPLE signifies magical, mysterious love. It is said that purple is the color of good judgment and peace of mind – two qualities that are ideal to share with wedding guests to symbolize the couple’s love, feelings and commitment. Of course, all throughout history, purple has been considered the color of royalty and thus has been a very popular wedding theme color for hundreds of years, and remains so today. Wedding flowers in purple such as orchids, freesia, violets and forget-me-nots are a wonderful complement to a bridal bouquet or table arrangements.

The color ORANGE signifies creative, vital and warm love. Orange is truly a color of power, and is chosen as a wedding theme color by the strong and confident couple who loves life and is not afraid to share their vibrancy and energy with others. Orange has always symbolized vitality, endurance, sincerity and thoughtfulness – perfect qualities to showcase on your wedding day. Orange flowers such as daisies, sunflowers, tulips, marigolds, and hothouse roses can create a stunning floral display for table centerpiece arrangements, especially when set against crisp white linen.

The color GREEN signifies healthy and balanced love. Green In most cultures, the color green represents earth, nature, life and fertility. However, it also symbolizes balance, self-respect and overall well-being. Given its restful properties and its ability to harmonize with other colors, green is a common color choice for wedding decor and reception decorations. Since green represents change, life and growth, it is the perfect complementary wedding color, especially in floral arrangements using lush ornamental grasses, baby’s breath, green fern leaves and other greenery. Green is also a very popular color for bridesmaid dresses, with soft sage being the current shade of choice with brides in North America.

The color YELLOW signifies happy and wise love. Yellow is the color of happiness, joy and bliss. Yellow is also a color with high energy so use it sparingly as a wedding theme color. The beautiful yellow daffodil is the symbol of unequivocal love, and makes this flower a poignant wedding flower choice. Other yellow flowers such as tulips, roses, and wildflowers make wonderful flower arrangements and bouquets if you are going with a yellow color palette. For a spring or summer wedding, yellow is the perfect color choice with shades such as buttercup yellow, lemon yellow and soft corn yellow the most popular choices.

Source: Tracey Smith is an expert article writer on the topic of weddings, we hope you found this article on wedding colors useful for your wedding planning.

Summer Weddings - Keep Your Guests Cool

2010-01-18T11:00:00.003-05:00

Summer weddings are beautiful indoors or outdoors it can get very hot for your guests. Why not help keep your guests cool with Wedding Fans and Personalized Water Bottles.

Personalized Floral Wedding Fans(Set of 50)

Wedding Program Fans w/handles (Set of 25)
From: Beau-coup Wedding Favors

White with Hearts Favor Fans
From: Dream Weddings By Cody

A chic take on the hand fan favor, these monogrammed fans will provide guests with a wonderful accessory and a welcoming cool breeze for those warm and sunny days. Absolutely perfect for the ever popular outdoor weddings and summer affairs.

Thirsting for a fun favor idea? For cute additions to welcome baskets or placed in big buckets of ice for your outdoor fete, present guests with bottles of refreshing water -- created exclusively for your wedding.

Personalized Water Bottles-LOVE From: The Knot Wedding Shop

Personalized Water Bottle (Case of 24-8oz)
From: Beau-coup Wedding Favors

"Our Wedding Water" Personalized Water Bottle
From: My Wedding Favors

So keep your guests cool at your Summer Wedding!

Personalized Bridal Party Gifts

2010-01-17T19:16:00.028-05:00

Receiving a personalized gift for being in the Bridal Party is always thoughtful for all the hard work your Bridal Party has done over the last few months here are a few suggestions:

Custom Cosmetic Bags: Convenient, waffle-weave cosmetic bags with lined interiors are embroidered with a monogram or up to 15 characters.

Custom Tote Bag: Colorful tote bags with black handles and a monogram design are perfect for wedding day or everyday essentials

Available at: Dream Weddings By Cody

Personalized Jewelry Roll - $ 18.00
From: Beau-coup Wedding Favors

CUP OF LOVE HEART CUPS & SAUCERS (6) - $ 52.00
From: Wedding Things

Blue Personalized Lunch Cooler
From: Online Bridal Store

Personalized Quilted Cell Phone Case
From: Online Bridal Store

Silver Jewlry Clock Wedding Slipper

Blumebox - Think Inside The Box

2010-01-14T14:28:00.007-05:00

This do-it-yourself centerpiece idea is a simple way to exhibit memories of the couple, fitting for either their engagement party, rehearsal dinner or on their wedding day.Select images of choice, cut to suit and frame against layers of decorative paper and ribbon. Also a great idea for identifying the tables for your guests!

Great ideas from Blumebox.

Blumebox's goal is to help reduce the carbon footprint to ensure that we all, now and in the future, can enjoy a greener world. They have a wide array of colors makes it easy to match a blumebox to the color scheme of a flower arrangement or the theme of an entire event.

Visit: Blumebox to see all the ideas.

Photo: courtesy of Blumebox

Wedding Website Planning

2010-01-12T10:35:00.011-05:00

When it comes to wedding planning, it seems to go on for months and months. Nevertheless, that final moment when it all comes together seems to be over within just the blink of an eye. One way to simplify your wedding planning is to create your own wedding website. Think of it’s as your own personal assistant.

Your wedding site is not only useful to your guests, but very valuable to those loved ones who cannot make it to the wedding. Maybe you have family or friends overseas who cannot attend, a website will allow them to feel a part of your plans and your big day. It also offers them an additional way to communicate with you.

Guestbook: Lets your visitors leave their best wishes for you and your fiance.

Directions: You can provide directions to your events and you could even upload maps or provide links to an online map service to assure no one gets lost.

Your Wedding Party: Everyone always wants to know who you have selected to be in your wedding party. Create a special page just for them.

Link to Gift Registries: Adding this information to your site makes for a great way to let everyone know where you are registered.

Offer Online RSVP: There are always a few people who are late sending back the RSVP, why not make it really easy for them. Most wedding websites offer this feature and will send you an e-mail immediately when someone RSVP's.

Password Protection: Wedding websites are Password protection.

After the Wedding: Everyone loves to see Wedding Pictures and Honeymoon photos, you can simply load some photos onto your wedding website.

Here are few Wedding Websites:

Nearlyweds!, Inc.

wedsimple.com

eWedding.com

Since most people are using the Internet to communicate why not make it easier for your friends and family.

Sand Pouring Ceremony

2010-01-10T01:51:00.005-05:00

A new tradition is quickly taking the place of a unity candle in wedding ceremonies. The sand ceremony serves as a beautiful symbol of unity for two people or families with children. For outdoor weddings a sand ceremony is a great alternative to candles because there's no flame to blow out.

Towel Cake For a Bridal Shower

2010-01-09T21:05:00.001-05:00

A Bridal Towel Cake is a very unique and fantastic way to present the bride with a gift. The Towel Cake can also be used as the centerpiece on the table at the shower. They are extremely easy to make. It will be a big hit at the Bridal Shower.

You can find easy to follow instructions at: Superweddings.com
To see a video how to make one – Click here

The round cake is what you will see the most, but you can also create a square cake.

To see a video and instructions how to make a square towel cake visit: Event Advisors

Bridal Shower Cupcakes

2010-01-09T21:01:00.000-05:00

Bridal Shower Cupcakes
Instead of serving one large cake at a bridal shower why not Cupcakes, they are an easy way to provide dessert to your guests. Bridal shower cupcakes also make great bridal shower favors for guests to bring home. You can make them yourself and package them up like a professional.

It's easy to decorate Bridal Shower cupcakes just coordinate with your Bridal shower colour and theme.

Here are a few ideas:
Miniature sugar flowers atop each cupcake to match your floral arrangements.
Hershey's Kisses
Confetti Candy
Bows and ribbons that match your colors
Visit Wilton to see pictures of Cupcakes that have been decorated to get your ideas flowing.

Then you can place them in cupcake wrappers to give that professional look to them and then placed on a Dessert Tower to have at the shower. Cupcake wrappers come in very pretty designs such as: Butterflies Cu pcake Wrappers Heart Swirls Cupcake Wrappers Filigree Cupcake Wrappers

Wilton 16.25x12-in. 4-Tier Stacked Dessert Tower

Box each one up in a Cupcake Individual Box as a Bridal Shower Favor to go home with the special cupcake.

Just a different and unique idea than a Bridal Shower Cake!

Bridal Shower Cakes

2010-01-09T20:59:00.001-05:00

The Bridal Shower Cake is one of the highlights of the party. Here are some ideas if you wish to make the Bridal Shower Cake.

Bridal Shower Wedding Cake - Hershey's Kitchens

Bridal Court Mini Cakes

From: Wilton Cakes

Daisy Burst Cake
From: Wilton Cakes

A Wedding to Remember: Unique Wedding Ideas They’ll Never Forget

2009-11-20T12:51:00.001-05:00

There are very few once in a lifetime events quite like your wedding day. From the flowers and dress to the flavor of the cake, the option to plan and personalize your wedding with your own unique wedding ideas is truly in your court. And we’ve all been to dozens of weddings that follow the standard format – the rehearsal and subsequent dinner, the wedding ceremony where the bridesmaids, groomsmen, and couple walked formally down the aisle, and, finally, the reception, where dancing and dinner is bound to follow.

And yes, points are given to the couples that take the time to personalize their wedding with fun favors, unusual refreshments, decorations, and other unique wedding ideas. But have you ever thought about shaking up your own wedding, perhaps even changing the very structure of it? With a little ingenuity (and planning), you can personalize your wedding in a way that’s fun for everyone!

My Favorite Memorable Ideas for Unique Weddings

Consider the rehearsal dinner. Whereas most couples elect to run through the standard ‘meet and greet,’ practice their walk down the aisle to get rid of those pre-ceremony jitters, and then sit down to a light repast, some brides and grooms choose to infuse this gathering with their very own unique wedding ideas. One example I’ve heard of is eliminating the sit down dinner entirely, which is usually more formal in nature anyway. The brides then invite the rehearsal dinner guests over for a picnic (in warmer months) or a potluck supper (great any time). This option not only takes away a lot of wedding stress, but also encourages the guests to interact more.

The wedding ceremony itself is, of course, meant to be solemn and respectful, but that doesn’t mean before or after the priest or minister marries the couple you can’t infuse the ceremony with your own unique wedding ideas. One of the more unusual examples I’ve heard about is the entire wedding party dancing up and down the aisle to the delight of the guests who get in on the act. Without so much as a hint as to what is going on, an upbeat tempo begins playing and guests start clapping. The bridesmaids and groomsmen get footloose up and down the aisle, making way for the groom’s and bride’s grand entrances. After all, a lively entrance is certainly one way to personalize your wedding and make sure guests never forget your nuptials!

Another way to personalize your wedding is seating guests at round tables at the wedding venue itself (serving as both the ceremony and reception area). Though it appears to be the reception, the guests actually watch as the bride and groom are married while seated at tables, and then after a quick swap out, the area becomes a beautiful reception. The perks? The bride and groom save lots of money because there’s no need to secure two venues, and your guests don’t have to travel.

And, of course, if you choose to have a wedding theme, you can incorporate all sorts of unique wedding ideas. Take the idea of a renaissance-themed wedding. Both the bride and groom, for instance, will be wearing flowing fabrics and unique headpieces, while the entertainment could feasibly be even more entertaining. Couples have hired ‘court jesters,’ ‘jugglers,’ and ‘dancers’ to lighten the mood, carry on the renaissance theme, and personalize their wedding in a unique way. However, whatever your wedding theme may be, just remember to explore all the unique wedding ideas and possibilities available to you. If it’s historical in nature, do your research! If it’s hobby-themed, ask your friends to share their ideas. Not only will collaboration on unique wedding ideas help you to envision a better wedding, you’ll also have the support of your friends.

At your reception, just about anything goes. It’s your day, so plan and personalize your wedding reception how you want. Some brides feel as though they have to please their guests. Bottom line – if you plan and personalize your wedding activities and events, your guests will want to stay all night long. Consider, for example, the buffet or sit down style dinner served at most weddings. A few brides have elected to have wait staff circulate with heavy hors d’oeuvres and beverages or have had multiple refreshment tables set up around the room. Usually, one of the most popular attractions at these refreshment tables is the giant chocolate fountain, with fruit and pretzels for dipping.

Another one of the more unique wedding ideas I’ve heard about is a groom’s cake made entirely of meat. Ideally, the groom’s cake is meant for him and his right-hand men, so, in many ways, it’s appropriate. And you might just have a lot of extra ‘cake’ left over to enjoy later!
Memories that Last a Lifetime

These examples of unique wedding ideas are just a few of the more memorable highlights I’ve seen at weddings over the years. Regardless of how you choose to personalize your wedding, it will always be a special day – a celebration of love and romance with your closest friends and family members. And if you ultimately decide to play it on the traditional side, don’t worry – you have those beautiful memories to last a lifetime.

Posted By Cherie Johnson - Article Source: www.ladypens.com

What are the Ushers Responsiblities?

2009-11-16T12:06:00.001-05:00

· Escorting guests to their seats.
· Assists best man with bachelor dinner or party
· At ceremony, provides guests with wedding programs and maps to reception
· Decorating the bridal couple's going-away car
· Transports bridesmaids to reception – if transportation needed

What are the Best Man Responsibilities?

2009-11-16T12:02:00.001-05:00

· Coordinates and oversees all ushers' activities and duties
· Coordinates all rental and fittings for ushers' wedding clothing
· Picks-up and returns all rented wedding clothing for the ushers and the groom
· Organizes bachelor dinner or party
· He must make sure that all the men are properly dressed and at the church on time. This includes the Groom, the Groomsmen, and the Ushers.
· Drives groom to ceremony
· Witnesses marriage license signing
· On wedding day, pays any and all service providers as per groom's instructions (i.e. officiating authority, photographers, musicians, etc.) Groom is to provide money.
· If there is no organised transportation, drives bride and groom to reception
· He proposes the first toast to the newlyweds at the reception.
· If there is no ring bearer, holds bridal ring until needed
· Collecting any congratulatory telegrams or faxes.
· Along with the Maid of Honour, he should transport the gifts to the Bride and Groom's home for opening

What Are the Bridesmaid Responsibilities?

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Assist in the selection of the bridesmaid dress

Provide your measurements to the bride for the bridesmaid dress

Host/co-host the Bridal Shower and/or Bachelorette Party

Help address and stuff the wedding invitations

Help the bride get dressed and ready on the wedding day

Attend pre-wedding parties, if feasible

Pay for your dress, shoes, and accessories

Pay for transportation and/or lodging to and from the wedding place

Help the bride in any tasks or errands

Participate in the bouquet toss, if single

What are the Maid/Matron of Honour Responsibilities

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Helps bride to choose her wedding attire
Helps to address invitations
Supervises and organises all the other bridesmaids for their wedding attire, including arranging the date for bridesmaid gown fittings.
Inform the bridesmaids about bridesmaid duties
Holds bridal shower
Attends all pre-wedding parties and rehearsal
Assists in wedding day plans and preparation
Picks-up last minute items for bride
Keeps bride on schedule and assists her throughout her wedding day
Assists bride in dressing for the ceremony
Witnesses the signing of the marriage license.
Holds the groom's ring wedding ring until the exchange of the rings, if there is no ring bearer
Holds the bridal bouquet during the ceremony
Adjusts the bride's veil and train before the processional and the recessional
Following reception, helps bride to change from wedding gown(if the bride is changing)

Special Touches For The Bridal Shower

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Every bride wants to feel special and spoiled at her bridal shower. It's also fun to get the bride blushing a little bit. Here are few suggestions:

Corsage for Bride:

The hostess of the party may buy a small corsage for the bride to wear at the shower. It will automatically help her feel special and energized and makes a nice keepsake.

Disposable Cameras:

Have 1 camera per 5 guests. Let people know that they can take pictures. This will capture a lot of different perspectives. Giving the cameras to young girls that attend might show you some things you never really thought about. If this is not done, make sure that at least one person is designated as the photographer. The hostess will likely be too busy to take pictures and the bride will definitely want photo memories of her shower.

Recipe Cards:

Send a blank recipe card with guest's invitations and ask them to bring their favorite recipe to the shower, to jump start the Bride's recipe collection.

Bow Bouquet:

Take a paper plate and bunch a small hole in the middle. While the bride is opening her gifts, someone can take the bows and tape them on to the plate. The ribbons drop through the hole in the center and are used as a handle. At the end of the shower, give this to the bride so that she can carry it at the wedding rehearsal.

Gift Note-Taker:

While the bride is opening her gifts, have a designated person write down each gift and who it was from. Not only will it make a nice memory, it will make writing those thank-you notes a lot easier! It is a great idea to have two people doing this, just in case one person forgets to write something down in all the excitement.

Theme Bridal Showers

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A theme shower is especially appropriate for brides who have already accumulated many of the traditional bridal gifts that tend to be given as gifts at traditional showers. Themes are also good for less traditional co-ed gatherings. The following ideas are especially cheerful when the theme is carried out in all aspects of the event, including invitations, menu, decorations, favors, and the gifts the guests bring.

Tea Party:

Arrange an assortment of tea sandwiches and sweets on cake stands and pretty platters, and serve with pots of different kinds of tea. For place cards at the table, remove the tags from tea bags, replace them with small handwritten name tags, and put a tea bag in an empty cup at each guest’s place. Ask each guest to bring a vintage tea cup and saucer.

Holiday Shower:

Assign each guest a holiday, and the resulting gifts will become family heirlooms for the couple: a platter for the Thanksgiving turkey, Christmas ornaments or Hanukkah decorations, champagne glasses for New Year’s Eve, a picnic basket for the Fourth of July.

Beauty Shower:

The bride and her bridesmaids escape to a day spa and indulge in facials, manicures, and massages. This is a wonderful way to pamper the bride as her wedding approaches. Create invitations out of cards attached to linen hand towels or bottles of bath oil.

Linens Shower:

Gifts such as monogrammed pillowcases, fluffy down pillows, and the finest cotton or linen sheets. Or expand the theme to encompass both bed and bath, and include gifts like his-and-her bathrobes, fine soaps, and towels. Since taste in these items is individual, encourage the couple to register at a department store beforehand.

Pantry Shower:

This shower is great for couples who have never lived in their own place before. Couples bring a bag of groceries, spices, even a gift certificate to grocery stores.

Wine Shower:

Have every guest bring a bottle or two of wine to help build the couple’s wine cellar. You can even turn the shower into a wine tasting.

Garden Shower:

For couples who have a house, organize a garden-themed shower. Guests can bring books, tools, seeds, flowerpots, plants, and journals. Send out hand-decorated seed packets as invitations, or give them out as favors.

Gift Certificate Party:

This shower is especially great for those on a limited budget. Have guests create a "gift certificate" for a special service for the couple. Some idea's include helping to plant a garden, painting, helping to prepare their first dinner party, pet sitting, home repair, etc.

Christmas Shower:

Great for the bride getting married just before Christmas! Ask each guest attending the shower to attach a Christmas ornament to the top of the gift. Gifts can include tree lights, ceramic Santa's, candles and candle holders, wreaths, etc.

Gift Baskets:

Each guest brings a basket full of goodies! The variety of items also makes for fun present opening. If you decide to assign a specific genre for their basket (such as a room of the house or a type of food), let them know when they RSVP. You may also tell them in the invitation that they can choose a theme for their gift basket.

Time Line For Planning a Bridal Shower

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Six to Eight weeks before the shower

Set time and date with bride and groom
Prepare guest list with couple's help so you don't overlook someone
If it is a surprise shower, contact the bride's and groom's parents for help with guest list
Reserve the date as soon as possible if you are planning to hold the shower at a restaurant or club
Decide on a theme for the shower
Make or purchase invitations
Send invitations and be sure to include RSVP
If you are planning games decide which ones and collect what you need.
Reserve a caterer if you are using one
Start thinking about decorations

Four to Six weeks before the party

Plan menu and start planning who will bring what (if this is a group effort)
Decide on how many game prizes you will need and start shopping for them
Choose your gift, as you might get so busy you forget
Mail out invitations
Begin your search for anything you may need to rent or borrow for the shower
Purchase place cards, but do not fill them

Three weeks before the shower

Take care of decorations, either buying or making them
Purchase and wrap your gift, so you won't forget at the last minute
Prepare shopping list for all ingredients you need to prepare food
Purchase and wrap favors for guests
Make sure you have extra wrapping paper and ribbon on hand (just in case of last minute gifts)

Two weeks before the shower

Make sure that you have the proper serving dishes and utensils
Check tables and chairs to be sure you have enough
Look over table linens and napkins (if using cloth)
Empty coat closets so you will have a clean space to hang coats
Confirm reservations if the shower is being held outside the home
Order centerpieces and corsage, lei or whatever for the bride
If it is being catered, contact the caterers
If friends are bringing food, contact them

One week before the shower

Prepare anything that can be frozen ahead
Call anyone who has not responded to the invitation
Check all recipes and buy the ingredients
Either clean your home or hire someone to do it
If you will need extra refrigerator space, call a neighbor
Decide what you are wearing, making sure it is pressed and ready to wear
Fill in place cards for those attending

Two days before the shower

Decorate your home and set the table, if possible
Wash china and crystal if needed
Arrange transportation for any guest who may need it

The day before the shower

Purchase, pick up, or make the rest of the food on your menu
Check your home for last minute cleaning
Set up extra chairs for guests
Check to be sure you have enough ice
Try to set up a spot to display the bride's gifts
Check to see what time the flowers will be delivered or pick them up yourself
Have plastic trash bag ready for wrappings
Provide a pad and pen for list of gifts and who gave them (one of the bridesmaids usually writes the list)

The day of the shower

If the shower is being held someplace other than your home, plan to arrive at least 30 minutes ahead of your guests
Try to have someone there to help with last minute details
Light candles to scent the room
Have glassware and light refreshments available
As each guest arrives, make sure she knows someone or introduce her to others

Bridal Showers FAQs

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Who should host a bridal shower?
Traditionally, the maid of honor hosts the bridal shower.

Is it proper for a family member of the bride to host?
In the past, it has been considered improper for a family member to host. Since bridal showers are traditionally a gift-giving event, a family member hosting appeared greedy. Today, it is becoming more common for a family member to host. Sisters of the bride are the most likely to host as they are often bridesmaids as well. Mothers of the bride should not be hostesses, but they are encouraged to help in the planning. Note that the etiquette regarding this issue varies widely from region to region. It is still considered very improper in some areas for a family member to host and, in other regions, it is common for a family member to host. If you aren't sure, think about showers that you've been to or ask close friends what they think would be best.

Should other bridesmaids be included in the planning?
Of course! These women are very important to the bride and while they do not have to help in planning, it is proper to ask them. It is also important to consult them when choosing the date so that they can set that time aside.

Should the bride help in planning the shower?
The bride should be involved to a certain extent. The hostess should consult with her on the date/time, the guest list and gift ideas. It's important for the hostess to know what items the bride needs or where the bride is registered because many people will probably inquire about this. Some games may require information that only the bride can give, but in general, try to keep the games and other details a surprise. It adds to the excitement of the shower and also allows the bride to focus on wedding details instead of shower details.

What about surprise showers?
Planning a surprise bridal shower is not very easy and not recommended. The bride typically expects a shower, so it is not easy to just "forget" this element, and the bride should be involved in the guest list preparations and other ideas as previously mentioned. Surprise showers would be a nice idea when throwing a shower for a co-worker during the work day. The bride may also be surprised with a second shower with only her closest of friends close to the wedding. This would not have to be a formal shower, just a simple celebration of her upcoming marriage. If it is decided that her primary shower will be a surprise, be sure to consult the bride and groom's mother to find out what family members should be invited.

If the bride has been married before, should she still have a shower?
Definitely! A shower is a joyous time and should not be denied to the bride because she has been married previously. However, it may not be appropriate to have the traditional gift-giving party. Think about having a recipe shower or having each guest bring only a small item and a good wish for the bride. Be sure and ask the bride if she would like a shower and respect the decision that she makes.

When should the shower be held?
Typically a shower is held 1-2 months before the wedding. Do not hold it too close to the wedding because that is often a busy time.

Who should be invited to the shower?
Female members of the bride and groom's family, all bridesmaids, and close friends of the bride. Consult the bride when making the invitation list!

What about step-families?
If the bride gets along with step-families, then they should be included. Hopefully, everyone will be able to get along for the sake of the bride. If there is fear of conflict, you might have the bride personally invite people with the condition of being civil. Not inviting one party may cause hurt feelings and the bride should consider both sides before making her decision.

How many people should be invited?
A comfortable shower is approximately 10-20 people. Try not to have more than 30 people there. The shower should be intimate and everyone should get a chance to interact with the bride. When you are inviting, take in to account that some people may not be able to make it due to prior commitments.

What kind of invitations is appropriate?
The invitations do not need to be extremely fancy. Card stores like Hallmark have a fairly good selection of bridal shower invitations. If possible, try to incorporate the couple's wedding colors. Many hostesses are opting to create invitations on the computer using a printing program such as Print Shop. This allows for customization and can look great. This is great for people who have nice printers and some familiarity with print programs.

What information should be included in the invitation?

bride's name
shower date and time
hostess' name and phone number
address of shower
map of shower location
RSVP date and phone number
shower theme information (if applicable)
registry information

Is it proper to include registry information in the invitation for the shower?
This is the one time that it is not considered improper to include registry information. The shower is primarily a gift-giving event and many guests find it helpful to know what the bride needs. However, do realize that in some cultures or social circles this is still considered improper. If you feel people will find it offensive, then it is better to leave it out. Many guests will often call later to ask for this information. Note: A bride usually registers at a particular store and the store keeps a list of items the bride needs. Including registry information would simply be a name of the store she was registered with. Some stores provide small registry cards that can be slipped into invitations. Ask the bride to see if the store provided these.

How should the guests RSVP?
It is easiest to have the guests respond by the telephone. Keep a guest list by the phone and then just check "yes" or "no" when the person calls.

When should the RSVP date be?
Set the response date to two weeks before the shower. If the invitations were mailed late, you may choose to may this one week before the shower.

What should be done if a guest hasn't RSVPed by the noted date?
The hostess should call the guest and ask if they will be attending. This will remind them if they have forgotten and give you a more accurate guest count.

When should the invitations be mailed?
Invitations should be mailed to out-of-town guests about 3-6 weeks prior to the shower and about 2-4 weeks prior for local guests.

How long should the shower last?
Two hours is a good estimate. Things may wind down early or they may likely continue on as guests chat together.

Does a shower have to have games?
No, there do not have to be games. If the bride is older or just not into games, you may choose to have a nice dinner or tea at a restaurant or at your home. However, if a lot of people are not familiar with each other, a shower with games is preferable. Games include everyone and generate interaction among the guests.

What food should be served at the shower?
Typically there is a not a meal served at a shower, but simply finger-foods. Chips, pretzels, ice cream, pie, cake...just typical snack or dessert foods. A fruit or vegetable tray would be a good alternative for the health conscious. There should be coffee & punch available for the guests. You may also choose to have soft drinks or other beverages available. Having a potluck is also a fun idea. The guests could then include the recipe for the item that they brought. This is a part of the shower theme, recipe roundup.

When should thank-you notes be sent?
The bride should try to send these out as soon as possible. Thank-you notes should have handwritten messages and mentions the specific gift.

Flowers For Your Wedding Day

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Bouquets:
Bride
Maid/Matron of Honour
Bridesmaids
Flower Girls
Bride’s Toss Bouquet

Corsages:
Mother of Bride
Mother of Groom
Grandmothers
Female Readers/Speakers
Special Female Relatives

Boutonnieres:
Groom
Best Man
Groomsmen
Father of Bride
Father of Groom
Grandfathers
Ring Bearer
Male Readers/Speakers
Special Male Relatives

Ceremony:
Altar
Pews/Seating
Main Entrance
Aisle Runner

Reception:
Guest Tables
Head Table
Gift Table
Place Card Table

Questions to Ask When Booking a Reception Venue

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Choosing an appropriate venue for the reception is vitally important to the success of the event.

Capacity - Will the room hold the required number of people comfortably?

Cleanliness - Is the venue clean and in good repair?

Suitability - Is it suitable for a catered affair or used mainly for meetings?

Grounds - Is there a view or nicely landscaped grounds for guests to enjoy or for wedding party photos?

Dance Floor - Is the space the appropriate size for the number of people?

Kitchen Facilities - Extremely important if venue is a community hall and caterer is expected to serve and cook on-site – does the venue have refrigeration and heating appliances? Dishes and cutlery?

Washroom Facilities - Are handicapped facilities available? Can a bride fit into a stall wearing a wedding dress? Are they clean?

Audio/Visual - Are there enough outlets for the A/V requirements? Does the venue provide a microphone?

Lighting - Can the lights be dimmed for the dance or presentations? Is there enough lighting for food and bar service and speeches?

Seating - Are the chairs clean and comfortable? Are there extra chairs?

Linens - Does the venue supply linens, including draping for tables?

Stage or Platform - Does the venue supply any of these items for use by a band or DJ?

Electrical - Is the power supply sufficient for a band and/or DJ’s needs?

Tables - How many tables and what configurations are available? Are there extra tables?

Bar - Is the bar portable or static? Is it stocked with openers, glasses and an icemaker or refrigerator?

Clean up - Does the venue provide janitorial service and garbage disposal?

On-site Coordination - Does the venue have their own event coordinator?

Questions to Ask When Booking an Officiant

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Once a desired officiant has been chosen, before you book them, it is advisable to find out the following:

• What is their fee and when is it payable?
• What is the refund policy if the wedding needs to be postponed?
• How many times will the officiant meet with the couple prior to the wedding?
• Is the officiant agreeable to coordinating the ceremony with you (the wedding planner) as well as with the couple?
• Does the officiant’s fee include the rehearsal (preferably the day or night before the wedding)?
• Does the officiant have any rules or procedures they need to follow when performing a wedding ceremony?
• Are there any restrictions with respect to the music, prayers, readings, etc.?
• How are interfaith marriages handled (if applicable)?
• Will the officiant perform a marriage in conjunction with another officiant (if applicable)?
• Will the officiant perform the ceremony at another location (if applicable)?
• Will the officiant provide a copy of the ceremony script beforehand (if this has not already been obtained)?
• Can changes be made to the script?
• Can personal vows be included within the ceremony?
• Will the officiant attend the reception?

Questions to Ask When Booking Ceremony Venue

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There is so much to do for a wedding you can see that from the basic checklist that we have posted. So we will try to post helpful hints for the different parts of your wedding. So let’s start off with the Ceremony Venue.

Once you have chosen a venue to have your Ceremony, before you book it, it is advisable to thoroughly check out the venue and find out the following:

• What is the fee for renting the venue and what does the fee include?
• How much deposit is required and when is the rest of the fee payable?
• How long can the venue be used for at that fee?
• What are the hourly charges if the time allotted is exceeded?
• Is there a security deposit required?
• What is the refund policy?
• Can the venue be used for a rehearsal the day/evening before the wedding (and is this included within the rental fee)?
• What are the insurance requirements, if any?
• Will there be a venue coordinator available, if required? If so, what are the duties of the venue coordinator?
• Are there any officiant options with the venue?
• Are there any requirements regarding an officiant?
• Is pre-marriage counseling required (if in a place of worship)?
• Can couples from mixed faiths be married at the venue (if applicable)?
• What rental equipment is included with the fee (for example, microphones, candelabras, stereo system, organ, etc.) or, what is the cost of using these if not included within the fee?
• Is there an organist or pianist available?
• What is the room capacity?
• Is there a change room/waiting room that is included for use?
• What parking is available?
• Will there be any other weddings held on the desired date?
• If any other weddings are planned, what time will they be held at?
• How long before the wedding can the florist and decorator come in to set up?
• Are there any restrictions with respect to decorating?
• Are there any wedding policies or rules (for example rules regarding picture taking or petal, rice or birdseed tossing, etc.)?

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Checklist for the Bride and Groom

12 -24 Months Before

___ Announce engagement in the newspaper (if desired)
___ Send out engagement announcements (if desired)
___ Plan an engagement party (if desired)
___ Discuss wedding arrangements with parents
___ Determine if parents will be assisting with the wedding costs
___ Meet with wedding planner to begin wedding preparations and decide on style and theme of wedding
___ Finalize wedding date
___ Decide on ceremony and reception venues
___ Select bridal party and other attendants and ask them to participate in your wedding
___ Prepare invitation list

10-11 Months Before

___ Determine what customs and/or traditions, personalized vows, readings and/or exchanges you would like to include at the ceremony (e.g. lighting of unity candle, flowers to mothers, etc.)
___ Select and meet with wedding officiant

8-9 Months Before

___ Sign up for premarital counseling, if required
___ Bride to select and purchase wedding dress, headpiece/veil, shoes, lingerie and accessories
___ Bride to select bridesmaids and flower girl dresses and accessories

6-7 Months Before

___ Make arrangements to have bridesmaids and flower girl fitted with dresses
___ Have mothers select their dresses
___ Get listed at a gift registry and select desired gifts
___ Provide any required deposits for vendors
___ Begin planning and booking honeymoon including air, transportation, hotels and entertainment and update passports, obtain visas and any inoculations required

___ Reserve rooms for out-of-town guests
___ Arrange with a family member or friend to finalize out-of-town accommodations, as required
___ Sign all vendors/suppliers contracts (after reviewed by wedding planner)

5 Months Before

___ Select invitation design
___ Select ceremony music
___ Select reception music and prepare list of requests
___ Finalize wedding invitation list

4 Months Before

___ Review budget with wedding planner to ensure on track
___ Purchase wedding rings and arrange for engravings
___ Groom to select and get fitted for tuxedo or alternative formalwear and shoes
___ Have groomsmen (and possibly ring-bearer and ushers) fitted for tuxedos or alternative formalwear including shoes
___ Meet with caterer (with wedding planner) for tastings and to find out menu options
___ Select all flowers for the wedding
___ Select an emcee and decide on other speakers (e.g. individuals making toasts) at the reception and ask these individuals about performing these duties
___ Select and arrange with individual(s) to handle guest book at ceremony and reception
___ Select and arrange with individual(s) to hand out wedding ceremony programs
___ Reserve honeymoon suite for wedding night
___ Bride to reserve getting-ready suite for the day of the wedding, if required
___ Make arrangements for the planning of a rehearsal dinner and day-after-wedding brunch, if desired

3 Months Before

___ Bride to make all appointments for hair, makeup and manicure/pedicure for wedding
___ Get blood tests and/or have medical examinations, if required
___ Finalize food/menu and beverage selections
___ Select any readings (and readers) for the ceremony

___ Meet with the officiant to review ceremony and finalize vows
___ Determine what customs and/or traditions you would like to include at the reception (such as formal cake cutting, toasts, etc.)
___ Finalize time and location of rehearsal
___ Provide finalized wedding invitation list to wedding planner

2 Months Before

___ Bride and bridesmaids to attend follow-up wedding attire fittings
___ Bride to prepare guest list for shower and give to maid of honor
___ Groom to prepare guest list for groom’s get together and give to best man
___ Bride to select going away outfit

1 Month Before

___ Obtain marriage license (within legal time period required)
___ Send out thank-you cards for gifts received or advise wedding planner of gifts received so that she can send out thank-you cards
___ Pick up wedding rings; ensure they fit and are engraved
___ Finalize lists of photos to be taken and video to be shot and provide these to wedding planner
___ Purchase gifts for bridal attendants, parents, ushers and each other

3 Weeks Before

___ Advise wedding planner of any special seating arrangements for reception
___ Bride to go in for trial hair and makeup appointment(s) and confirm wedding day appointments
___ Prepare wedding reception toast/speech
___ Update insurance policies (life, household, car, etc.)
___ Complete change of name/change of address paperwork
___ Open joint bank account (if desired)
___ Select individual to arrange for return of groom’s formalwear attire
___ Select individual to drop off bridal gown at the cleaners
___ Select individual to take flowers to be pressed

2 Weeks Before

___ Bride and bridesmaids to pick up their gowns/dresses and all accessories (including veil and/or headpiece for bride, lingerie for bride, shoes, jewelry, etc.)

___ Bride to decide on wearing something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue on wedding day
___ Pick up all tickets, itinerary, travelers’ checks, etc. for honeymoon
___ Provide honeymoon details to close friend or family member
___ Bride to arrange bridesmaids’ luncheon and give gifts to attendants
___ Groom to arrange groomsmen get together and give gifts to attendants
___ Groom to get hair cut

1 Week Before

___ Meet with the wedding planner to review all wedding plans and to supply the marriage license
___ Advise wedding planner where wedding gifts and cash that are received on day of wedding are to be dropped off
___ Prepare final checks for vendors’ fees (such as musicians, officiant, caterer, florist and wedding planner fees, etc.) and provide these to the wedding planner
___ Pack for honeymoon including clothes, toiletries, tickets, passports, visas, maps, guide books, travelers checks, money, etc.
___ Pack for wedding night including going away outfits, wedding night clothes and next day clothes and toiletries
___ Arrange for temporary stoppage of newspaper and mail while away on honeymoon

2 Days Before Wedding

___ Groom and his attendants to pick up tuxedos/formalwear
___ Bride to get manicure/pedicure
___ Give gifts to parents and to each other
___ Confirm early meeting times with bridal party for the day of the wedding

Day Before Wedding/Rehearsal

___ Attend rehearsal (plan to arrive about 20 minutes early)
___ Groom to give bride’s ring to best man (or to wedding planner, for safekeeping, if a ring-bearer is involved in the wedding)
___ Bride to give groom’s ring to maid of honor (or to wedding planner, for safekeeping, if a ring-bearer is involved in the wedding)
___ Attend wedding rehearsal dinner/party

Day of Wedding (Prior to Ceremony)

___ Wake up with plenty of time to get ready for your special day
___ Remember to eat
___ Bride to get hair and makeup done
___ Get dressed
___ Bride wears something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue
___ Bride to wear garter (if desired)
___ Get to the ceremony venue on time

Day of Wedding (Ceremony and after)

___ Enjoy the day!

Day of Wedding (Reception)

___ Enjoy the evening!

After the Wedding

___ Send wedding announcement to the newspaper
___ Send out wedding announcement cards
___ Send out thank-you cards for gifts
___ Send out change of address cards
___ Complete any name change paperwork
___ Get marriage license from wedding planner
___ Pick up wedding dress from cleaners
___ Pick up pressed flowers
___ Update wills

You're Engaged! - Congratulations

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You're engaged and you want the whole world to know! However there is an etiquette to whom to tell first.

1. Your Parents
2. Grandparents, Siblings, and Other Close Relatives
3. Your Close Friends

Then when you are ready to announce to the world you can publish your engagement in your local paper and/or have an engagement party you can go big or keep it small. You can have it at a reception hall, you can have it at a family or friends house or a restaurant. You could even just have your friends and celebrate at a night club.

Engagement gifts are not the norm, although a close relative or friend may choose to present you both with a gift – Make sure to send a thank you card to them – which will be the first of many to come over the next few months.

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